Are You Willing To Stop Gun Violence?
My heart aches for those touched by the terror of shooting violence — in any of our yesterdays. I just can’t wrap my mind around why. Why do we, yes, You and I, accept and perhaps even encourage such horrible acts? Why is there so much gun violence, and why are we (as a society) unwilling to change it?
Are you also amused by the silly dance in our society around gun violence and gun control? It’s so silly and predictable in such a horrific way. A terrible and tragic event happens like a school shooting that involves guns and senseless killing, then there is the outcry for gun control, then the rhetoric of “It’s not the guns”. There are useless accusations of government not doing their job, and the endless blame. Meanwhile hearts break, families cry — and in the end we’re paralyzed into doing basically nothing. What’s wrong with us?
The whole dance is so stupid and heartbreaking that I must laugh or scream! How can we, as a society, act so stupidly?
Understanding Gun Violence
I won’t pretend to understand the above — from any side. I am an engineer, and I usually think logically and out of the box. To me, problems require solutions, and if we’re not serious about understanding the problem to take action, then it must not be a real problem.
Let me illustrate with an example that might make you angry. Drinking alcohol has been part of our society forever, and mostly it’s entertainment and harmless. However, 10,497 people died in alcohol-impaired crashes in 2016, — drunk driving. As a society we’ve become so callused to it we almost don’t care. More than one person dies every hour, yet by our actions, we show it’s worth it so everyone else can have their little buzz (or whatever they get out of drinking).
OK, I get it. While the above is true, it’s purposely very black and white.
Unfortunately, gun violence follows the same pattern and worse. More than 30,000 americans die each year by guns. We care relatively little about the 100 daily killings, but we’re angry, perhaps scared, when acts of violence include schools, or mass shootings, or seem especially random.
Are You Part Of The Problem?
Gun violence is NOT just a matter of guns and availability. Yes, that is one of the many pieces. However, a cry for gun control or new laws (like Amnesty USA) is a reflection of a hollow mind.
When is the last time guns were YOUR entertainment? Seriously, let’s get personal.
Think about that question for a few minutes . . . . . Now think again.
Guns are cool, there’s no doubt. Holding a gun gives a reaction — of power, of fear, of respect, or of caution. Everyone has some kind of reaction around guns. In large measure we, as a society, glamorize guns in ways to say those who have them have power (artificial though it may be). Many movie heros have them and the story plays so guns are part of what makes them the heros.
When did you last see a movie or show with guns? Or gun violence? Or play a game that included shooting of some type? What about your latest novel? If you have, then you’re in the majority, AND you are part of the problem. Yes, I’ll put you, and I, right in the crosshairs. Our consumption of violence in any of its popular forms gives demand for gun violence as entertainment. The act of watching it — even though it’s just entertainment — encourages more of it. Oh, and the entertainment industry is happy to give it — more guns, and ever more explicit violence.
If we are selling and promoting gun violence as entertainment . . . If we are glamorizing guns in ways that make them attractive and desirable . . . How can we be so naive as to think it doesn’t have an effect on society?
Just like most people that consume alcohol, you are probably sane and perfectly capable of distinguishing reality from fantasy. However, your abilities to understand don’t translate to others. “Monkey see, Monkey do” is a humorous axium, yet many a truth is said in jest, and that is as true as it comes.
Are We Serious About Reducing Gun Violence?
Are we serious? As with the above example on alcohol, the answer from our society right now is a resonating NO.
The actions of our society right now say we think deaths by gun violence are OK as long as we have our “buzz” — (our movies and video games that promote violence). We want our guns and we want our hollywood glamorization of them. Why then the surprise when the same acts show up on our streets?
On the other hand, IF WE ARE SERIOUS ABOUT STOPPING GUN VIOLENCE AND MASS SHOOTINGS, we need a multilayered approach. It’s not just guns, and it’s definitely not just law. It’s not just entertainment, and it’s not just mental health. ALL of these and more. Unfortunately, real change won’t come easy and it won’t come fast. (And, that’s why most people are not willing to do it.)
Are we just looking for a quick, easy fix? Maybe if it’s not easy it’s not important. I personally think we need to take the focus off guns and gun violence — and put it on the surrounding elements. But, that is harder.
Why say such a thing? Because there are several fallacies in the dance around gun violence. Let’s think about a few.
Fallacies In The Dance Around Gun Violence
First, the obvious. While we hate hearing “guns don’t kill, people do” there is truth in it. However, it’s not as black and white as it sounds. The truth is guns do make it much easier to kill, yet they don’t point themselves or pull their own triggers.
Second, Government can’t stop gun violence. Laws can’t make guns behave, and screaming at the government to do something is not a solution. Drunk driving is illegal, but it still kills lots of people.
Third, “You can have my gun when you pry it from my cold dead fingers”. Taking guns away will not solve gun violence. There is no way to take them all away, and there is no reason to either. “If guns are outlawed, then only criminals will have guns” is another axium with a lot of truth in it. That said, availability is an issue. If not guns, then the violent will find other tools of violence. (Bombs, cars, airplanes, knifes, etc..)
Fourth, Video games and other killing entertainment have no effect. I’ve read studies that claim there is little or no correlation, but they’re looking at the wrong things. ‘Hero worship’ happens with everyone — for good and for bad. You can’t un-see or un-think something. Every action starts with a thought, and many bad things come from planted thoughts. In some venues they call it “radicalization”. In this discussion it’s voluntary, and invited — perhaps subliminal. For those with malintent, through entertainment we give them step by step instructions and plenty of ways to practice.
Fifth, there is no test or way to judge who will and who will not use a gun for violence. All the background checks in the world won’t keep guns out of crime. The same for waiting periods. These actions may help, but they are not the solution.
Sixth, rights of the many are more important than the rights of the few. This fallacy decries the hierarchy of rights. For example, your right to live is greater than the rights of everyone else to drive fast through the crosswalk. And yet, it is opposite for other things. Our society says your right to easy alcohol is more important than the right to life for 10,000+ people each year.
Finding Gun Violence Solutions
If by some chance we decide gun violence IS a problem worth solving, then we must make some hard decisions. It will require give and take, and it will require looking much deeper at ourselves. It will take time and common sense as we work through it. Here’s my limited view on the way to start.
Continue What We’ve Started.
Background checks, waiting periods and other deferrance methods do slow some of the access. Though limited in their true effect, these do show a sense of seriousness.
Get ‘The System’ Out of the Way.
Give folks in the trenches the ability to seek help in a non-attacking and non-invasive manner. Parents would gladly seek more help if the system was not so full of permanent labels and courts and red tape. Our current system promotes hiding mental illness — especially when it pertains to only the possibilities of crime or violence. We must give ways to intervene without the baggage of going to court or having something on a record. It must be focus on the individual rather than on mandatory reporting or wins or money.
Change The Attitude Of Prosecution.
Right now our system is very — maybe only — focus is on punishment and “winning”. On the periphery, I’ve seen several cases where seeking true help for the individual is last. To the attorneys, it’s much more about “winning” as if people’s lives and future are a game. I can’t understand how they sleep at night. Truly, they must feed themselves all kinds of lies to avoid separating fact from fantasy — emphasis here on our prosecutors.
Get Rid of Guns in Entertainment.
Every new gun law must also address the issues of glamorizing guns in entertainment. More importantly, they must be on scale with the gun restrictions. For instance, if we require licenses for guns, we must FIRST require licenses for games and movies that include guns. Taking this to an unreasonable extreme, if we abolish guns, we must FIRST remove every game, video game, movie, book and show that has guns or shooting in any way as entertainment. I’m not talking about putting blinders on, just taking the entertainment out of it.
Certainly the entertainment industry could do a lot to influence the perception of guns and gun violence. Movies without violence? Entertainment where conflict is resolved by higher skills — like thinking? That’s not as easy or as shocking, so maybe the industry isn’t up to the task. Violence sells, so maybe the money is worth more than the shooting victims lives?
Address Mental Health.
We must make mental health issues easier to address, less expensive and most of all — remove the associated stigma. It’s absolutely stupid that you can easily acquire a gun without care, but you can’t access mental health without risk of permanent repercussion. As we grow and become more crowded and busy, these issues grow too, and they’re not going away. Importantly, it’s not just those with mental health concerns I’m talking about. Parents too (and others in a close role) must have the ability to get help for those they are close to — without the red tape and potentially permanent maligning of someone who needs the help.
Bring Practical Testing.
Going more extreme, I support both written and practical testing in addition to background checks for gun ownership. While it will not stop gun violence, it puts a stamp of seriousness and a practical reminder about safety, about gun laws — and about responsibility in giving others access to your gun. Yes, including a shooting test to demonstrate functional knowledge of guns, and the ability to hit a target with a minimal level of accuracy — not unlike a driving test.
Yes, some of the above are extreme. And yes, it might be infringement of privacy, intrusion (and a bunch of other undesirable attributes), but if we are serious about stopping gun violence, then we’ll have to give up some of our precious rights. The point? Re-start the conversation with a lot less emotion and a lot more care for our fellow citizens.
The Deep Questions About Gun Violence
This is not an easy problem. Not at all. And, there are some really tough questions we, as a society must answer. Here are a few:
- How can we put horrific acts of gun violence (like school shootings) in the news without promoting them in the warped minds of a few? This is a problem we must solve.
- How can we glamorize guns and give our “cool” guys and heros guns, then expect everyone — including those that are not mentally as stable — to not follow? Monkey see, Monkey do.
- What do we do when we identify a person that COULD become a perpetrator? While there are often signs before a horrific act, law currently requires that someone actually commit a crime before we intervene. BUT, they must have a record before a background check can flag them. (And by the way, “intervene” does not have to mean prosecution or other such intrusion.)
- How do we measure the rights of an individual against the rights of society? Society demands a right to be “safe”, but the individual has rights of privacy. Until one intrudes on the other, right now, we do nothing, and that’s how mass shootings happen. How do we balance rights?
Until we are ready to attack the several difficult aspects of gun violence, it is just like drunk driving. So they kill a few thousand people each year, whatever. We obviously don’t care enough about driving deaths to truly address the alcohol problem. In our current state, we obviously don’t care enough about shootings to truly address those contributing problems. (That sentence just sounds so incredibly cold when thinking about recent mass violence, but sadly, it’s true.)
Why the surprise when these horrific events keep happening?
What rights are you willing to give in order to spare the lives of others? I know people who want to remove all guns from society, but are they willing to remove all entertainment with guns?
Based on observation, I personally think it’s all lip service. Deep inside we are more concerned about our selfish wants than about hundreds of people dying. Please feel free to leave your thoughtful opinions in the comments below.
This is not an outcry against entertainment with guns, nor is it a condemnation of guns in general. If anything, it’s disgust in our society’s unwillingness to carefully think about ALL the surrounding issues. The intent is to have us all think about our role in finding solutions. I truly hope we can bring the issues up in thoughtful ways, without emotion and posturing, to find ways of reducing the violence. Please don’t read any more into it than that. Be part of the conversation. Thank you.
About the Author
I am an Engineer, a creative thinker, a gun owner, and I support the 2nd amendment. However, I do NOT support the radical views of organizations like the NRA or Amnesty. They are noise confusing careful thinking. (For instance, the number of bullets in a clip is superfluous to the act of killing.) I support permits and background checks and waiting periods — though I don’t believe they have the effect desired. And, I truly wish our government officials would pull a clue and begin to think instead of posturing.
In my short years, I’ve had many great experiences with guns. I’ve helped design some cool new gun components, and I support skills and education. On the other hand, I’ve been shot at in a random drive-by (fortunately, we learned later, it was not lethal ammunition.) I’ve taken guns away from people (possibly illegally) because of threats and/or acting inappropriately with them. Unfortunately, because of legal backlash, I have not reported the incidents — knowing it would make a (hopefully, my judgement) temporary situation into a life-long black mark.
For situations like school shootings, I share the outrage. At the same time, I feel pain for every parent with no idea their child could do such things. Our system is seriously flawed with respect to guns and mental health. I don’t know the answers, but I absolutely know we are NOT on the right path. This needs to be a conversation with thinkers — not political agendas. Feel free to share your thoughtful opinions below.