Are You Willing To Stop Gun Violence?

My heart aches for those touched by the terror of shooting violence - in any of our yesterdays.  I just can't wrap my mind around WHY.  Why do we, yes, You and I, accept and perhaps even encourage such horrible acts?  Why is there so much gun violence, and why are we (as a society) unwilling to change it?

Are you also amused by the silly dance in our society around gun violence and gun control?  It is so silly and predictable in such a horrific way.  A terrible and tragic event happens like a school shooting or mass violence that involves guns and senseless killing.  Then, there is the outcry for gun control, then the rhetoric of "It is not the guns".  There are useless accusations of government not doing their job, and the endless blame.

Meanwhile hearts break, families cry - and in the end we are paralyzed into doing basically nothing.  What is wrong with us?

The whole dance is so stupid and heartbreaking that I must laugh or scream!  How can we, as a society, act so stupidly?  Why do just we sit back and wait for still more people to suffer and die?

Understanding Gun Violence

I will not pretend to understand the above - from any side.  I am an engineer, and I usually think logically and out of the box.  To me, problems require solutions, and if we are not serious about understanding the problem to take action, then it must not be a real problem.

Let me illustrate with an example that might make you angry.  Drinking alcohol has been part of our society forever, and mostly it is entertainment and harmless.  However, 11,654 people died in alcohol-impaired crashes in 2020, - drunk driving.  Thousands more are injured in alcohol related violence and accidents.  As a society we have become so callused to it we almost don't care.  More than one person dies every hour, yet by our actions, we show it is worth it so everyone else can have their little buzz (or whatever they get out of drinking).

OK, I get it.  While the above is true, it is purposely very black and white.

Unfortunately, gun violence follows the same pattern and worse.  More than 30,000 americans die each year by guns.  We care relatively little about the 100 daily killings, but we are angry, perhaps scared, when acts of violence include schools, or mass shootings, or seem especially random.

Are You Part Of The Problem?

Gun violence is NOT just a matter of guns and availability.  Yes, that is one of the many pieces.  However, a cry for gun control or new laws (like Amnesty USA) is a reflection of a hollow mind.

When is the last time guns were YOUR entertainment?  Seriously, let's get personal.

Think about that question for a few minutes.  When is gun violence in your entertainment?  . . .  Now think again.

Guns are cool, there is no doubt.  Holding a gun gives a reaction - of power, of fear, of respect, or of caution.  Everyone has some kind of reaction around guns.  In large measure we, as a society, glamorize guns in ways to say those who have them have power (artificial though it may be).  Many movie heros have them and the story plays so guns are part of what makes them the heros.

When did you last see a movie or show with guns?  Or gun violence?  Or play a game that included shooting of some type?  What about your latest novel?  If you have, then you are in the majority, AND you are part of the problem.  Yes, I will put you, and I, right in the crosshairs.  Our consumption of violence in any of its popular forms gives demand for gun violence as entertainment.  The act of watching it - even though it is just entertainment - encourages more of it.  Oh, and the entertainment industry is happy to give it - more guns, and ever more explicit violence.

If we are selling and promoting gun violence as entertainment . . .  If we are glamorizing guns in ways that make them attractive and desirable . . .  How can we be so naive as to think it does not have an effect on society?

Just like most people that consume alcohol, you are probably sane and perfectly capable of distinguishing reality from fantasy.  However, your abilities to understand do not translate to others.  "Monkey see, Monkey do" is a humorous axium, yet many a truth is said in jest, and that is as true as it comes.

Are We Serious About Reducing Gun Violence?

Are we serious?  As with the above example on alcohol, the answer from our society right now is a resounding NO!

The actions of our society right now say we think deaths by gun violence are OK as long as we have our "buzz" - (our movies and video games that promote violence).  We want our guns and we want our hollywood glamorization of them.  Why then the surprise when the same acts show up on our streets?

On the other hand, IF WE ARE SERIOUS ABOUT STOPPING GUN VIOLENCE AND MASS SHOOTINGS, we need a multilayered approach.  It is not just guns, and it is definitely not just law.  It is not just entertainment, and it is not just mental health.  ALL of these and more.  Unfortunately, real change will not come easy and it will not come fast.  (And, that is why most people are not willing to do it.)  Are you?

Are we just looking for a quick, easy fix?  Maybe if it is not easy it is not important?  I personally think we need to take the focus off guns and gun violence - and put it on the surrounding elements.  But, that is harder.

Why say such a thing?  Because there are several fallacies in the dance around gun violence.  We can think about a few.

Beguiling Dance Around Gun Violence

First, the obvious.  While some hate hearing "guns don't kill, people do" there is truth in it.  However, it is not as black and white as it sounds.  The truth is guns do make it much easier to kill, yet they do not point themselves or pull their own triggers.

Second, Government can't stop gun violence.  True, laws can't make guns behave, and screaming at the government to do something is not a solution.  Drunk driving is illegal, but it still kills many people.  Saying things like "the police should take their guns" also shows ignorance.  The government has a role in gun violence, but laws are only the tip of the iceberg.

Third, "You can have my gun when you pry it from my cold dead fingers".  Taking guns away will NOT solve gun violence.  There is no way to take them all away, and there is no reason to either.  "If guns are outlawed, then only criminals will have guns" is another axium with a lot of truth in it.  That said, availability is an issue.  If not guns, then the violent will find other tools of violence.  (Bombs, cars, airplanes, knifes, etc..)

Fourth, Video games and other killing entertainment have no effect.  I have read studies that claim there is little or no correlation, but they are looking at the wrong things.  Hero worship happens with everyone - for good and for bad.  You can't un-see or un-think something.  Every action starts with a thought, and many bad things come from planted thoughts.  In some venues they call it "radicalization".  But, when it is passive, like in a movie, we call it entertainment.

In this discussion it is voluntary, and invited - perhaps subliminal.  For those with malintent, through entertainment we give them step by step instructions and plenty of ways to practice gun violence.  Those who say there is no effect are protecting their own self-interest.

Fifth, Cooling Off, and Background Checks.  There is no test or way to judge who will and who will not use a gun for violence.  All the background checks in the world will not keep guns out of crime.  The same for waiting periods.  These actions may help, but they are not the solution.

Sixth, rights of the many are more important than the rights of a few.  This fallacy decries the hierarchy of rights.  For example, your right to live is greater than the rights of someone wanting to drive fast through a crosswalk.  And yet, it is opposite for other things.

Our society says the right to easy alcohol is more important than the right to life for 10,000+ people each year.  I hear this argument both ways with gun violence - with various confusions about what is a right and what is not.  We are so screwed up in our thinking.

Finding Gun Violence Solutions

If by some chance we decide gun violence  IS  a problem worth solving, then we must make some hard decisions.  It will require give and take, and it will require looking much deeper at ourselves.  It will take time and common sense as we work through it.  Here is my limited view on the way to start.

1. Continue What We have Started.

   Background checks, waiting periods and other deferrance methods do slow some of the access.  Yes, it is limited in effect, and it restricts the honest more than the criminals.  However, it sits as a hurdle to those that will not pass the checks - even though they will find other ways to get guns they want.  These actions are in NO WAY complete, but they do give a sense of seriousness and attention to the problem of gun violence.

2. Get The System Out of the Way.

   Give folks in the trenches the ability to seek help in a non-attacking and non-invasive manner.  Parents would gladly seek more help if the system was not so full of permanent labels and courts and red tape.  Our current system promotes hiding mental illness - especially when it pertains to only the possibilities of crime or violence.  We must give ways to intervene without the baggage of going to court or having something on a record.  It must be a focus on the individual, and to addressing needs, rather than on mandatory reporting or court wins or money.

   Let me just say that I am flabbergasted at the stupidity of our current system where you cannot seek help without opening the floodgates of intrusion.  I will NEVER again help a child seek professional help because of the damage the help causes.  I am ill prepared to give help, but those who can are the latch to opening a flood of stupidity.  It is a horrible paradigm.

3. Change The Attitude Of Prosecution.

   Right now our court system is very - maybe only - focus is on punishment and "winning".  On the periphery, I have seen cases where seeking true help for the individual (perpetrator) is last.  To the attorneys, it is about "winning" as if people's lives and future are a game.  It makes me sick, and I do not understand how they sleep at night.  Truly, they must feed themselves full of lies to avoid separating fact from fantasy - emphasis here on our prosecutors - but, much of the blame rests with the Judges that allow it.  We must change that attitude, and fire those who will not put the lives of individuals first.

   Yes, there is a cry for vengeance from those injured, I understand.  There is also a plea for leniency from defendants.  And it is an awkward balance, but I have seen first hand how the "winning" persona hides behind a cloak of justice as a devil devouring its prey.  Injustice is the result, and the winning leaves scars that DO NOT help in achieving the desired goals of remorse, restitution and rehabilitation.  Instead they leave emotions of revenge and anger from the injustice.  IMHO the current (in)Justice system has significant blame with repeat offenders.

4. Get Rid of Guns in Entertainment.

   Every new gun law must also address the issues of glamorizing guns in entertainment.  More importantly, they must be on scale with the proposed gun restrictions.  For instance, if we require licenses for guns, we must FIRST require licenses for games and movies that include guns.  Taking this to an unreasonable extreme, if we abolish guns completely, we must FIRST remove every game, video game, movie, book and TV show that has guns or shooting in any way as entertainment.  I am not talking about putting blinders on, just taking the entertainment out of it.

   Certainly the entertainment industry could do a lot to influence the perception of guns and gun violence.  Movies without violence?  Entertainment where conflict is resolved by higher skills - like thinking?  Or reasoning?  Or kindness?  That is not as easy or as shocking, so maybe the industry is intellectually too weak for the task.  Violence sells.  Gun Violence sells.  So, maybe money is worth more than innocent victims lives?

5. Address Mental Health.

   We must make mental health issues easier to address, less expensive and most of all - remove the associated stigma.  It is absolutely stupid that you can easily acquire a gun without care, but you can't access mental health without risk of permanent repercussion.  As we grow and become more crowded and busy, these issues grow too.  It is not just those with outrageous mental health concerns I am talking about.  There are indicators of hidden emotional challenges.  (See #2 above.)  Parents too (and others in a close role) must have the ability to get help for those they are close to - without the red tape and potentially permanent maligning of someone who needs the help.

6. Create A Safe Social Environment.

   There will be backlash, for sure, on this one.  I am a strong supporter of freedom of speech, so it is not without reservation I propose that we examine that freedom.  Just like it is wrong to yell "FIRE" in a public venue when it is not true, I think hate speech is wrong in a public venue - and that includes the internet.  It is like cyber-bullying, but on a larger scale.  I believe those who put it up should be prosecuted (see note #2 above) for slander and other crimes against society.

   I also think companies that serve such clients should also be held, in part, responsible for the content their platforms broadcast.  Not limited to social media, but every public and private ISP that hosts user content.  We must change the way we think about freedom of expression, especially when it comes to violence, like gun violence.

   Now, how do we draw that line?  In radio it was drawn at the exclusion of certain profane and offensive words.  Perhaps with the internet it should be drawn more loosely - with a review of the context.  This opens a wide gray area, and it will take many reasoning minds to figure it out.  My biggest question:  Do we have the guts, as a society, to tackle the issue?

7. Bring Practical Testing.

   Going more extreme, I support both written and practical testing in addition to background checks for gun ownership.  While it will not stop gun violence, it puts a stamp of seriousness and a practical reminder about safety, about gun laws - and about responsibility in giving others access to your gun.  Yes, including a shooting test to demonstrate functional knowledge of guns, and the ability to hit a target with a minimal level of accuracy - not unlike a driving test.

8. Enforcement of Laws.

   Per the first comment below, I will add law enforcement.  While it does smell of overtaxing our already busy police departments, Bill makes a good point that many existing laws are not well enforced.  Punishment is also a big part of this.  Yes, I absolutely support the concept of a fair trial, but I think we have forgotten the "speedy" part.  AND, the punishment needs to be sufficient to deter.  I guess if we can't do these, then we are not going to make much headway on any new ideas.

   As a second update to this line . . . punishment is required for a society with laws.  Current trends for deflecting punishment show the intellectual inadequacy of those who support it.  I agree, the idea of prisons as they are currently implemented fails, but removing punishment is much worse.  This is an area where we need more societal thought about goals.  After a crime, what do we want for resolution?  I believe gun violence crimes must be handled much quicker, and far more severe.

Yes, some of the above are extreme.  And yes, it might be infringement of privacy, intrusion (and a bunch of other undesirable attributes), but if we are serious about stopping gun violence, then we must give up some of our precious conveniences.  We get so confused in thinking privileges are rights.  The point?  Re-start the conversation with a lot less emotion and a lot more care for our fellow citizens.

The Deep Questions About Gun Violence

This is not an easy problem.  Not at all.  And, there are some really tough questions we, as a society must answer.  Here are a few:

• How can we put horrific acts of gun violence (like school shootings) in the news without promoting them in the warped minds of a few?  This is a problem we must solve.
• How can we glamorize guns and give the "cool" guys and heros guns, then expect everyone - including those that are not mentally as stable - to not follow?  Monkey see, Monkey do.
• What do we do when we identify a person that COULD become a perpetrator?  While there are often signs before a horrific act, law currently requires that someone actually commit a crime before we intervene.  BUT, they must have a record before a background check can flag them.  (And by the way, "intervene" does not have to mean prosecution or other such intrusion.)  We have become our own worst enemy.  How do we get out of this box in our thinking?  (And more importantly, in our actions?)
• How do we measure the rights of an individual against the rights of society?  Society demands a right to be "safe", but the individual has rights of privacy.  Until one intrudes on the other, right now, we do nothing, and that is how mass shootings happen.  How do we balance rights?

Until we are ready to attack the several difficult aspects of gun violence, it is just like drunk driving.  So they kill a few thousand people each year, whatever.  We obviously do not care enough about driving deaths to address the alcohol problem.  Similarly, judging by our current actions, we obviously do not care enough about shootings to address the contributing problems.  (That sentence just sounds so incredibly cold when thinking about recent mass violence, but sadly, it is true.)

Why the surprise when these horrific events keep happening?

What conveniences or privileges are you willing to give in order to spare the lives of others?  I know people who want to remove all guns from society, but are they willing to remove all entertainment with guns?

Based on observation, I personally think much of the talk is just lip service.  Deep inside we are more concerned about our selfish wants than about innocent people dying.  Please feel free to leave your thoughtful opinions in the comments below.

Motivation

This is not an outcry against entertainment with guns, nor is it a condemnation of guns in general.  If anything, it is disgust in our society's unwillingness to carefully think about ALL the surrounding issues.  The intent is to have us all think about our role in finding solutions.  I truly hope we can bring the issues up in thoughtful ways, without emotion or posturing, to find ways of reducing gun violence.  Please do not read any more into it than that.  Be part of the conversation.  This is not about "us" and "them"; it is about all of us - together.  Thank you.

About the Author

I am an Engineer, a creative thinker, a gun owner, and I support the 2nd amendment.  However, I do NOT support the extreme views of organizations like the NRA or Amnesty.  (I am not saying all their views are radical, but they both have them, and both put up barriers to listening.)  They are noise confusing careful thinking.  (For instance, the number of bullets in a clip is superfluous to the act of killing.)

I support concealed carry permits and background checks and waiting periods - though I do not believe they have the effect desired.  And, I truly wish our government officials would pull a clue and begin to think instead of posturing.  I do not support gun control as in removing guns from citizens.  However, I believe there are some not yet thought about ways of reducing access for those not emotionally ready for the responsibility.

In my short years, I have had many great experiences with guns.  I have helped design some cool new gun components, and I support skills development and education.  On the other hand, I gave been shot at in a random drive-by (fortunately, we learned later, it was not lethal ammunition.)  I gave taken guns away from people (possibly illegally) because of threatening gun violence and/or acting inappropriately with them.  Unfortunately, because of legal backlash, I have not reported the incidents - knowing it would make a (hopefully, my judgement) temporary situation into a life-long black mark.

For situations like mass violence and school shootings, I share the outrage.  At the same time, I feel pain for every parent with no idea their child could do such things.  Our system is seriously flawed with respect to guns and mental health.  I do not know the answers, but I absolutely know we are NOT on the right path.  This needs to be a conversation with thinkers - not political agendas.  Feel free to share your thoughtful opinions below.

If you are interested in the Engineer's perspective on other social causes, try the article on Solving Disputes, or perhaps an analysis of Protest.